Change is inevitable

When you don't like things in your life, do not complain but take measures to change what you don't like. Let's make a list of the things I don't like at my life right now.

1. That I am not close to any family. I am done enjoying a single life. I like living with someone better. 

    How to change it: 

• I must find a job in Folsom. 
• I must touch base with managers again. 
• Schedule a 1:1 with my HR manager. 
• Summarize job postings on the jobs at Intel post and start talking to the hiring managers. 

2. That I am not giving my best at work. Being distracted all the time and not accomplishing any of the goals. Not keeping commitments.  

    How to change it: 

• Separate work focus and personal interest focus. 
• Be loyal and honest to the company. Use your time what they are paying you for. 
• Take responsibility and give your best effort. 
• I want to have good reputation and I must earn it by keeping commitments and delivering results.
• Focus on achieving results. 
• When at work, dedicate your entire focus to Intel. You owe them that. 

3. That I do not have a plan of what I am doing next or not following the plans I make. 
    How to change it: 

• Admit that you suck at multitasking and focus on doing one thing at a time. That is how you perform your best. 
• Practice focusing on sticking to the plan. Practicing enforced till end of 2012 beginning today. 
• Allocate hours to work on a task and get a specific result. If cannot be finished then wrap up and allocate time later, but move on to the next task on the plate. Document what you did. 
• Always plan the next day before leaving the workspace. 

4. That I don't have a baby. 
     How to change it: 

• Talk to doctor about health condition and concerns.
• Accomplish change 1. 
• Accomplish change 7.

5. That I haven't been to Bangladesh in a long time.
    How to change it: 

• Talk to lawyer about travelling.
• Collect required papers.
• Schedule travel time. 
• Distribute work plans.

6. That I have too many small projects unfinished at the same time. 
    How to change it: 

• Score them by time required to finish and priority/ urgency. Add two numbers.
• Start with project requiring least number. finish one after another. 
• Revisit number every month. 

7. That I am physically unfit.
    How to change it: 

• Eat three proper meals everyday. Force yourself to eat healthy portions.
• Every morning do a yoga workout using youtube videos. 
• Run at the gym to train for marathon after work ( or body pump class when schedule permits). 
• Take your pre-natal and calcium.